Sunday, December 9, 2012

Close Encounters with Santa Clause and Frosty the Snowman

Yes, 'tis the season.  Time for the annual sojourn to see Santa.  Once again, while Ken minded the store (literally) Grandma Mary, Grandpa Roy and I took Cornelia to visit Jolly Old St. Nick at Westfield Mall.  Before jumping on the Muni at the Castro Street station, however, we stopped by the Wingard store for a quick "hair fix."  Try as I might (and I do try), I can't do pigtails like Ken can do pigtails.  And I wasn't going to have my inept hairstyling skills memorialized in Cornelia's 2012 picture with Santa.

At the mall the line to see Santa was short.  I prepped Cornelia for the moment by pointing out Santa and coaxing her to wave "hi" to him.  As we stepped up for Cornelia's turn on Santa's lap, she was  intrigued by the big man in the red suit.  I was confident she would again produce a wonderful picture, with a big smile for the camera, caught in time for years to come.  Alas, within mere seconds of coming to rest on Santa's big red knee, the tears came complete with screaming and arms outstretched to Daddy.  I suppose it was inevitable, and I guess it's adorable nonetheless.  After all, part of the Christmas tradition is a red-faced wailing child on Santa's lap. 

Here's the least tearful of the pictures.   

"Is this the guy who promised me a pony last year . . .
and didn't bring me one?!"
And one more Christmas story:  Last night Coco was home with Grandma Mary and Grandpa Roy while Daddy and Papa were out for a Saturday night with friends.  Cornelia was bathed, in her pajamas and content with her bedtime cup of milk.  It was 8:00 p.m. and Frosty the Snowman was on TV.  Cornelia was on the couch, sipping on her milk and focused on the show with laser-like attention.  And then it happened . . . halfway through the show . . .  Frosty melted.  Black hat in a puddle of water.  Little Karen, Frosty's little friend, started crying . . . so did Coco.  She burst into tears.  Who knew that at nineteen months she was following the plot?  She did manage to calm down and watch the rest of the show.  And then at the end, when Frosty waved good-bye to Karen and said he would be back again someday, Coco burst into tears again.  

Karen and Frosty the (melted) Snowman

Friday, November 23, 2012

Thanksgiving Week

We spent Thanksgiving week in the country again this year.  After the past several hectic months of work and travel we decided a week together as a family was much needed.   And sleep.   Sleep was much needed too.  And we've slept a lot.  Cornelia went to bed at 7:30 and most nights we followed not long after that.  We did manage to be a bit social.  We had friends over for dinner on Wednesday night.  Since our oven doesn't work we tried to bake a pumpkin pie in the barbecue.  It didn't work so well but we think we'll get it right next time.  We spent Thanksgiving with Steph and Dennis - the second year with them.  It was a wonderful afternoon with martinis for Mike and Ken, oysters for those who like them (including Cornelia!), three dogs for Coco, and an absolutely wonderful meal for everyone.  The pumpkin pie was not cooked on the barbecue.

"Cheese and crackers!"  (Watch the dog!)

Coco and Papa enjoying the sunshine.

Waiting for the oysters to come off the grill.

"Yum!  Oysters!  Hold it, they're what!!"

Meeting Kukula, one of three dogs for Coco.

The weather has been great all week.

"Wachulooginat?"

Thursday, November 22, 2012

Giving Thanks



More than words can say . . . .


Coco's first time in the "big girl swing" by herself at Duboce Park.  Only 18 months old. 



Thursday, October 25, 2012

Autumn is in the air!

It's hard to believe it's fall, Halloween is next week and Thanksgiving is just around the corner.  And do not talk to me about Christmas!  Wasn't I just blogging about the heat of summer, wading pools and garden hoses?!  Sheesh, time flies!

Coco is now 18 months old.  She is such a little person.  She marches around in her little outfits, she has an opinion about whether she wants to be upstairs or downstairs, she climbs the stairs all by herself now (okay, we're always right behind her with hands outstretched to steady her if she wobbles), she likes to put on her shoes by herself, and she holds her dolls, bunnies, bears and doggies tight, giving them hugs and kisses and asking Daddies to give them hugs and kisses too.  She waves "hi" and she blows kisses "bye-bye."  She has added stickers to her list of favorite things (bubbles are still at the top of that list).  She likes to put stickers on lots of things.  Last weekend we played "stick the stickers on daddy's nose."  I now understand why homes with toddlers of a certain age have stickers on everything.  I mean - everything.  Our time is coming although I suspect Papa will set some boundaries when it comes to stickers.

Clearly Cornelia will be a talker.  She likes to talk, although she doesn't have many words yet.  She is pretty good with "daddy," "agua" (we get that one a lot these days) "bubbles" and "baby."  There are others too - "hat", "balloon" . . .  Oh, and "apple" is a big one right now too.  Of course she might be saying a lot in Spanish and we just don't know it.  Some things are still sounds and signs.  Dogs are "arf! arf!"  Elephants are an arm up at the side of you head.  More and more she talks with her dolls, bunnies, bears and doggies in her crib before she goes to bed and after she wakes up in the morning.  I have to say it's very cute to hear her upstairs talking all by herself.  

Our nutty travel schedule for the past three months is lessening a bit.  This week should be the last week we both have to travel for some time.  We've had very little time together as a family.  We did manage to visit the Los Angeles zoo when Cornelia and I flew to Los Angeles for Ken's last day of shooting on HomeMade Simple.  Last weekend we visited a pumpkin patch in Anderson Valley.

I have to admit it's really hard to be away from Cornelia when I travel for work.  (Yes, honey, it's hard to be away from you too . . . .)  Of course, every parent who travels for work experiences it: the guilt about being away from home, worrying your child is wondering where you are and missing you, and regretting the moments you've missed while away.  And it only gets harder as she gets older and more clearly understands that you're leaving and that you're gone.  Before my last trip I'm sure she knew I was packing to leave so she would not let me out of her sight.  For me, before Cornelia, I understood my friends and colleagues missed their kids while traveling for work but it's different to experience it yourself.  Well, duh!  It does mean that I appreciate the kisses more, story time more, and the hugs every night more.

Tonight when I put her to bed she hugged each one of her friends in her crib (Big Bunny, Liza Sue, Baby, Howard, Ellie and Bunny) and then handed them to me to hug and kiss good-night too.  Then I picked her up again and gave her another hug and kiss too.  That was awesome.   


Harvesting the first apples of the season.


This year's harvest


"Apple!"  (We hear a lot of that these days!)

Looking for the perfect pumpkin.

"Which one, Daddy?  There's so many!"

"Too big?"

"If I can carry it, I'm taking it!"



"I'll see you on Halloween, mister!"

   

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

"Bubbles, Bangles and Bears, oh my!"

Last week was a big week for The Bean: her first trip to Washington state to meet the Walsh clan and to spend a week at Grandma Mary and Grandpa Roy's house.  It was big trip and did not disappoint.

On Friday night Cornelia and I flew to Seattle where Mom, Dad and Scott met us at the airport and we made the late night trek to Moxee, which in the last few years has become the hub of all Walsh clan activities.  (Much to Stephanie LaCoursiere's dismay, but that is an entirely different blog post . . ..)  We arrived at 1:00 a.m.  Scott, Cornelia and I crept into Marty and Jane's guest rooms while Mom and Dad went on down the block to their lodgings at the LaCoursiere's.

On Saturday the festivities commenced.  The Bean was up early and ready for the day.  As usual, the family gathered at Marty and Jane's house.  The guest list included Marty and Jane, Pat and Jay, Stephanie L and her beau, Kathy (who motored over the pass from Seattle), Ned and Stephanie W, Erin, Chris and Donovan, and Matthew and Dylan, and the Gothams.  Oh, and of course, Lincoln!  We can't forget Lincoln!  The crowd was large enough even to warrant a kid's table at dinner.  (Although, I have to say, it's sad when one is 45 years old and still sitting at the kid's table . . . . uh, Scott?)  The day included lots of beverages, good food, loud football and constant chatter (but I'm not mentioning any names).

But for The Bean those weren't the day's highlights.  For her, it was about the bubbles and cousin Donovan.  Cornelia spent most of the morning in the backyard with Grandma engaged in her absolutely favorite pasttime: blowing bubbles, more bubbles and even more bubbles.  (The girl has some serious lungs on her which will serve her well when we start training for cross country running and cycling.)

And then Donovan arrived.  Donovan.  Three years old.  "He Who Opens Doors."  Literally.  Yes, all the doors in the house were closed to poor Cornelia.  Bedroom doors, office doors, guest room doors, bathroom doors, garage doors and even back doors.  Her world was limited to the family room and kitchen and, if someone indulged her, the backyard.  But, with Donovan's arrival, no door remained closed to Cornelia.  Donovan's little hands could firmly grasp door handles and then turn and pull them with ease.  "Viola!"  Soon, shrieks of delight were heard from the master bedroom, then from the master bedroom closets and then, finally, from the master bedroom walk-in shower which boasted the accoustics of a symphany hall for two delighted toddlers intent on making as much noise as possible.  And then they discovered the door to . . . Outside . . ..  (Fortunately, Grandma was watching from around corners to make sure all remained (relatively) intact in the wake of these two little cyclones.)

On Sunday Mom and Dad dropped Scott and me off at the airport for our flights to Denver and Anchorage.  I was concerned that Cornelia might be upset when I got out of the car and left her behind.  Much to my relief (and, yes, a bit of disappointment) she was nonplussed.  "Be gone, Daddy, and fare thee well.  I am off to the land of Grandma and Grandpa's house for the adventure that awaits me."

And, yes, it was an adventure.  Although I didn't realize it until later, the entire week in Washington was  about teaching Cornelia all about being a Gotham.  I should have suspected the direction for the week's activities when Scott surprised Cornelia with a WSU Cougar cheerleading outfit.  It seemed cute and innocent enough, but when considered from the perspective of the week in its entirety the underlying intent becomes clear . . ..

At Grandma and Grandpa's there was so much to do.  First, toenails had to be painted.  Grandma has painted toenails and so shall The Bean.  Then of course there was the new outfit and shopping bag from Nordstrom.  And then there was the jewelry.  Ah, Grandma's jewelry.  So many shapes, so many colors, so sparkly -- and, thankfully, so unbreakable.  Of course Grandpa was not to be outdone by Grandma.  He had a special activity planned as well.  Cornelia enjoyed her first camping trip right there in the family rec room.  Grandpa was rewarded for this activity as Cornelia - who had been a bit cautious about Grandpa - climbed right up into his lap on his birthday on Wednesday night.  Amidst all these activities there were of course, every day -- bubbles.

It was not all fun and games of course.  Cornelia had her chores too.  Every day she went with Grandpa to the mailbox to check the mail. Sometimes it took many trips before the mail finally appeared.  And then sometimes carrying the mail back to Grandma in the house took several trips.  Cornelia could only carry two pieces of mail at a time.  And it was a good week for mail, apparently.  Grandma very excited by all the mail Cornelia brought to her.  Apparently even the junkmail was unusually interesting last week.

By the time I arrived in Port Angeles late on Friday night the entire house had become Cornelia's playroom.  Toys, dolls, tupperware and random pieces of jewelry were strewn about nearly every room.  (I was not allowed to take pictures.)  It certainly is true that grandchildren always have it good, because as a kid I was never allowed to leave my stuff cast about the house.

Cornelia and I flew home on Sunday and this Saturday we fly back to Seattle so she can spend another week with Grandpa Roy and Grandma Mary while Ken and I are away for work.



Scott: "You're not very good at this 'hair thing,' are you?"

Bubbles, bubbles, bubbles.

"He Who Opens Doors"

"Wonder Twin powers activate!!"



Future Cougar

"Cougs are No. 1, baby!"



"Grandma, you've done this before, right?"


"Grandma, how do I know when I'm wearing too much?"

"So tell me more about these 'real bears' of which you speak."

Getting the mail

"Happy Birthday, Grandpa!"



"Daddy, focus on making the bubbles please."

"Whatchulooginat?"


Monday, September 10, 2012

And One Picture To Rule Them All

Jeff Spicer & Eric Mann Wedding, Cotuit, Cape Code, August 19, 2012

A Summer Day in the Country (Pictures!)

Okay, for those of you who read my previous lengthy post without pictures (I know, stories without pictures are hard!), these pictures are your reward.

Every day in the country starts with blackberry pancakes!

And a Big Girl Cup 'o Milk.

"Let's go to the barn!  It's where we keep stuff!"

"I hate burrs in my shoes!  I hate burrs in my shoes!"

"Time to work in the garden!"

Bedtime with Ellie.